Killing and Healing

• Ecclesiastes 3:3
• Luke 13:6-9
• Ephesians 4:2
• 1 Thessalonians 5:11
• Matthew 28:19-20

Would You Rather

• Would you rather kill or heal?
• Would you rather draw boundaries or heal?

What Is a Boundary?

A boundary is a property line. - Boundaries book - Henry Cloud

How to Set Boundaries

1. Build supports systems
2. Identify the issue
3. Get help
4. Learn to develop your “No”
5. Forgive the aggressor

How to Grow/Heal

1. Allow the advocate to work
2. Dig
3. Fertilize
4. Give God room

Your Pain Is Meant to Be Seen by Others.

Ask Myself

What should I tear down?

• Places of decay, rot and any cannot be restored.

What should I build up?

• One another
• My faith
• God’s kingdom